Attraction Matters

Okay I have been guilty of it too, but who are we kidding attraction matters.

Attraction for me starts the first time they may show interest. They took the reigns and winked at me. ( I am going to use online dating terms and scenarios) So I check out their profile, and of course their pictures. Okay so far so good, so I wink back.

First attraction, they made a small attempt at making the first move, that is hot to me.

Then if they want to take it to the next level and actually email me. Next attraction for me is if they sound smart, and have something more interesting to say to me then, wow your pretty.

Second attraction, are the educated or at least seem like they have some kind of education. And also still being a man by starting that communication.

And then they proceed by giving my their number or asking for mine, and then seeing how long it actually takes for them to call or if they even call you.

Then for me a big part is the sound of their voice. I mean if I have to listen to them I might as well like the way they sound.

And then of course on the first date how they treat you.

Now I have been opposed to kissing on the first date in the past, but I really think that some of the things are case by case, and I am not against it anymore especially since I am guilty of it as well.

So there needs to be a continuous flow of attraction. You can't just have it all in one area. And the attraction will hopefully be there when you meet as well. I mean you can't have a complete relationship with a guy that you can only talk to on the phone because that is the only place you have chemistry. Just like you can't have a relationship with a guy that you would only make out with just so that he would stop talking and you wouldn't have to hear his voice.

Attraction is important, so I guess we all should just actually own up to it.

* I am sure this will piss some people off, and I do know as well as the next that it can't solely be based off of appearance and what not. So this is my disclaimer. The views posted here are just for fun .Please do not hold Serena responsible for any offense you might have felt.