Excuse me but I am pissed off and don't feel like using better words to not offend someone.

Okay I am sorry if using the words pissed off has offended anyone......but you know what offends me??????? Is when a guy who is either married or has a girlfriend has such arrogance to think that I am so desperate as to fulfill his needs and be his side dish.

Some of them are guys that I was dating at one time, and they decided to go with their "other choice" but then....weeks, or months, or even years later they think to themselves, oh lets talk to this girl whom has not contacted me, but I want a little taste.....well you don't get to taste! You had your chance, and I will not settle for being some one's side dish or dirty little secret. I am sorry that you thought this nice girl could be taken advantage of, but you thought wrong. Just because you don't see my worth, and you also don't see the worth of the person you are with, does not mean you get to have what you want when you want it.

I think I am upset, because it has happened one 2 many times this month, and one guy who actually did try to cheat on me with his girlfriend told me through conversation one day that he was having women problems. I told him that it was partly his own fault, he went on to say that he knew he was a good guy and as long as he was "loyal and honest" he would find a good girl. Now I couldn't let it slide, I told him that if he was indeed a nice guy he had a funny way of showing it, because he had not been loyal or honest. Well he didn't want to hear the truth and that is the end of that.

So I am sorry if for any reason you looked at me and thought "oh this girl I can save for a little bit of dessert" because I know there are plenty of women out there who would be down for that......so instead of trying to mess with me, why don't you call them up? Or better yet, why don't you treat your girl with some respect and figure out why YOU even deserve a girl who doesn't know you are trying to creep behind her back. And saying "what she doesn't know won't hurt anyone" is not helping your case. You may be able to justify it in your sick twisted and demented head, but luckily I have morals and can't do the same. Or if being in your relationship is so miserable that you feel like you need to be in someone else's arms then maybe you should think about breaking up instead of lying and cheating.

Okay I am done venting.